“Why does a person fall out of love with someone else?”

I got an email from a reader asking  “Why does a person fall out of love with someone else?” it is funny because this is actually the third time I got this question this week, it came in different forms from http://www.datingtips.com/, but it is basically the same question.  The truth is, I don’t know! I mean there are a million reasons this can happen. Examples listed below.

1. Too much fighting and tension

2. Not enough chemistry

3. Lack of respect

4. You’re too easy to have, some people need a challenge- it feeds their ego!

5. Need for excitement

6. Just not compatible

7. Realizing that you have different goals and desires in life

Whatever the reason someone gives, it does not change the outcome. I guess some would call me a coward, because I prefer to never know the reason. It is just too painful; I would just rather say it was not meant to be.  Would you rather someone tell you that they fell out of love with you because you just weren’t all they thought you should be?  I say to hell with that!

Why does a person fall out of love with someone else? My answer is fate, and that it has to be that God has designed someone even better for you that he closed the door on forever with whom you thought could be forever. This is my way of getting through some of the hard times and difficult relationships that came to an end even before I was sure I wanted it to.

So you can take my feisty response or my uplifting one. If I were you, I would choose both depending on your mood!!

Dating Coach, Dawn Donohoo

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