Things That Will Make a Man More Likely to Flirt with You
Dressing down. I will swear on a copy of War and Peace that I am flirted with far more often when I am dressed like a complete schlub, as opposed to when I’m dressed to the nines. The only thing I can conclude is that men are less intimidated by casually dressed women. I’ve also noticed that when I’m in my gym clothes, I almost never get chatted up — except by sleazeballs — and maybe that’s because my tight spandex pants might actually be fairly sexy.
Being out in public solo. Much less scary to approach a girl who is by herself than someone surrounded by friends.
Seeming approachable without seeming desperate for human contact. It’s very unattractive to be the person in the coffee shop who is making eye contact with EVERYONE. Even worse: Being the crazy lady who tells every single last person who walks in the door that they should try the Chai Latte Double Skim Milkshake Extravaganza — or asking every male with opposable thumbs if he can help you with your computer. Looking around you now and then is fine; smiling — especially at babies or children — is perfectly acceptable. But being Ms. Chatty Cathy isn’t going to work in your favor.
I found this article and thought it had some great tips.
1. Dressing Down, I found this to be so true as well. Examples of when I have been hit on while dressed completely down, walking my dog, grocery store, book store, grabbing lunch, each time I was dressed in something very casual like, comfy house clothes!
2. Be out in public solo, Each time I was hit on, it was when I was alone. I think you give off this very independent vibe and it makes one seem interesting when she is just going about her day confidently.
3. Seeming approachable with out seeming desperate, being approachable is basically giving the vibe that you are a open person and a kind person at that. You can accomplish this just by smiling sincerely! Every guy likes a girl who smiles!
Most importantly, don’t go anywhere expecting to get hit on. I promise it happens when you are not expecting. Always have an open mind and enjoy the things you are doing. This kind of attitude is like a mating call. It begs men to gravitate towards you!
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